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Often, if a couple is in therapy, the narcissist can put on such a great show that their partner ends up looking like they are the problem, and the therapist, if not knowledgeable about narcissism, will not see the real issue.Therapists can be manipulated to further abuse the victim, “proving” the narcissists accusations of their partner not doing enough and reinforcing the thought that the victim needs to do more.Oh, and not to mention: Ryan was also an excellent father. I created excuses to chat with him in his office and I began to look forward to evening babysitting hours because I'd get to see his good fathering in action. I never thought a man as old as my dad would be interested in me. After a restless night of sleep, I wrote off the lengthy squeeze as the imaginations of a goofy teenager with a crush. I heard you tell someone to tell Jenna you'd be right back.""I don't know what you're talking about! Upon arrival, I gave Melissa her marching orders: When you see Ryan, make sure he sees you and give him a dirty look.So the night Ryan let his hand linger on my arm after walking me to my car left me reeling. Life continued in its usual doddering fashion until the night a group of co-workers from Ryan’s office invited me out for drinks at the bar next door. Pool was played, darts were thrown and unfortunately, Jagermeister was ingested. After several minutes that ticked by slower than the mini-eternities I spent in my algebra class, Ryan reached across the table, took my face in his delicately masculine hands, pulled me gently toward him, and said, "I think I'm falling in love with you."And then he kissed me. I stayed through painful months of having to babysit his children as he went to ritzy soirees with his wife. But don't make a scene and don't let Jenna catch you glaring at him. If I can keep her happy throughout this whole ordeal, it will end faster.Usually, he'll blame his problems on another woman or a previous spouse. Asking for a loan is a sign that he may see you as a cash machine rather than a real love interest.If you fall for that, the next empty bank account could be yours.5. If you suspect this is the case, talk to him about his financial situation. These days, it's men who are dating women for their money.

And a woman will always love the attention, even if it comes from someone who’s already married or seeing someone. I don’t really know how women make the first move while falling in love with a married man, because I really haven’t done that.

Is this some evolutionary flaw in women or some mistake we end up making over and over again? So I’m going to tell you about how married men try to hit on you in the first place.

You may know that a charming married man’s taken already, but if you find that he gives you a few second glances or a roguish smile, it would be pretty hard for you to overlook that.

Especially when he's married and you work for his wife. I found the whole Greek fraternity/sorority scene distasteful at best. I'm meeting her dad to talk about our taxes and she's coming with him." Something in his guarded tone set off warning bells."If that were really the case, you'd be horrified that I accidentally overheard and you'd be apologizing right now. That tells me you're guilty, you f*cker.""You’re overreacting. If he told me to 'go ahead, come on down' I might consider the possibility that he was telling the truth. I stared at the phone, horrified at what had just happened. There was only one restaurant he frequented in Salt Lake City.

Ryan agreed to pay me under the table and I accepted.